WINNERS versus LOSERS

¨ The Winner is always part of the answer;
The Loser is always part of the problem.

¨ The Winner always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse.

¨ The Winner says, “Let me do it for you”;
The Loser says, “That is not my job.”

¨ The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer.

¨ The Winner says, “It may be difficult but it is possible”;
The Loser says, “It may be possible but it is too difficult.”

¨ When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, “I was wrong”;
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, “It wasn’t my fault.”

¨ A Winner makes commitments;
A Loser makes promises.

¨ Winners have dreams;
Losers have schemes.

¨ Winners say, “I must do something”;
Losers say, “Something must be done.”

¨ Winners are a part of the team;
Losers are apart from the team.

¨ Winners see the gain;
Losers see the pain.

¨ Winners see possibilities;
Losers see problems.

¨ Winners believe in win-win;
Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

¨ Winners see the potential;
Losers see the past.

¨ Winners are like a thermostat;
Losers are like thermometers.

¨ Winners choose what they say;
Losers say what they choose.

¨ Winners use hard arguments but soft words;
Losers use soft arguments but hard words.

¨ Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

¨ Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: “Don’t do to others what you would not want them to do to you”;
Losers follow the philosophy, “Do it to others before they do it to you.”

¨ Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen.

¨ Winners plan and prepare to win.
The key word is preparation

Source : Shiv Kiera. You Can Win